Thoughtsandwords

Here is the thing!!! Have you ever thought about this? How the emotional influencers in the name of guidance try to suppress what you are going through within or they try to divert it? I had not thought about it until now. When there is a personal loss-especially losing a loved one, these so called emotional sprout like mushrooms to tell you how to deal with your grief... One of the common ones are:  Be strong  Divert your attention Get back to work Keep yourself bus and so on and so forth.. Here you are not dealing with your emotions but parking it and feeding it, letting it grow slowly and one fine day it just spurts out for no reason. What struck me the most is how we have emotional transformers who turn the emotion towards you and manipulating it making it all about you. As if your connection with the person or pet was not valid enough for the emotional turmoil you are going through.  I find it extremely ridiculous of such explanations.  When I view videos of the...