provoked thoughts on provke

Hi All,
The other day i was going through the message board on provoke…It was nice to see that many of them came with what they feel about it..some related the movie to what they underwent in their own lives..there were also some questions for which there were no answers..like on law,situations to be handled,and who would take up such a case in case its been done on the Male counterparts…Some posts were just for the sake of writing which hurt certain emotions…some taken very personally..
What i found in common was…whenever such a thing has been spoken out it becomes more of a gender issue than taking the situation into consideration and seeing it more of an atrocity done on a human being by another one…come what may be the situation…i did not see much support from the male counterpart on it..why ?good question…as people took it as if it was a straight hit on the male counterpart…and moreover there were questions about the character of the woman being portrayed…questions pertaining to an affair being linked but which lead to such an action…
Do we always have to see it in a such a manner?cant we see it in a more human way?
There will be people who may object to it saying a murder is a murder…what lead Ito it?
As far as i understand taking a life is not easy….anyone who takes such a step is driven to it…
When we drive a human being to such an extent and later also oppose the act for the same…what are we trying to prove?
It takes a lot of courage from an individual(irrespective of the gender)to tell one’s story to the world so nakedly…
how many of us can do it?
There may be reactions that it is a publicity stunt and one goes t any extent to get noticed nowadays…
I strongly feel instead of debating on such points its high time we stand up against injustice done which in turn leads to such an act such as provoked and many others

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