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DESIGN

Women have been interpreted and presented in different ways. Every time according to each one needs. They are customised accordingly. Women always have a demarcation set for everything and everything is interconnected. Be it anything. she is designed in an exclusive manner. She wants things exclusively and not implicitly.

Women are very elusive and selfish when it comes to relationships Women need that distinct, special attention from that special person, an attention that differs from the rest. She wants to be addressed in a manner that is not commonly addressed to someone else.

She may be surrounded by many, but still want one exclusive person whom she can call her own, who completely belongs to her. She wants to be the apple of his eye. She expects the same attention, belonging and connectivity from that person that she shares with him.

It becomes difficult for her to accept and understand in the case of a differed reciprocation.This mismatch brings in unwanted ill- feelings within her that are unlikely of her. Apart from that, it also brings in possessiveness, a feeling of keeping that person just to herself without interferences.

She may not want to have such feelings, but she can do nothing much about it.It is said, that it is not easy to understand her.Maybe because each one is different from the other.

She is not complicated as portrayed. She requires be understood, heard, reciprocated, cared and loved. She needs no manipulation. As manipulation comes from the mind and not by the heart. Most of the times she is more driven by the heart than the mind.

Her driving force is the person that she loves and the one that her heart connects completely with. He is not only her strength but her greatest weakness. She could be coming from any walk of life, but towards the end, she wants to be secured and protected.

Somewhere at the bottom of her heart, she still wants to be a child. Just as the child likes to experiment, explore and at times gets hurt, she behaves in a similar fashion.

At times, I feel why is a woman like this? Why do we see so many shades and colors all at the same time? The only possible answer I get is she is designed in this manner only to be explicit and exclusive, and yet so venerable.
A Design that is meant and crafted to be this way itself. Above all, this could only be a design of god with a touch of slight and a sweet imperfection.

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